If your question is not answered below, then please feel free to ask it when you contact me to reserve a session.
What are your rates?
My base rates are $400 an hour for incall in my Oakland location or outcall in the San Francisco Bay Area. Rates for overnight, extended, or fly-me-to-you sessions are available upon request from established clients. For submissive sessions that will leave me marked, I require an additional $100 per hour.
What is your booking process like?
The first step to reserving a session with me is to submit a polite, thoughtful, and concise inquiry via my reservation form.
If I am interested in playing with you, I will check your references and get back to you. I may require a deposit in the form of an Amazon.com gift card at this point, though I strongly prefer to use references. They give me more information and, well, I can only use so many Amazon gift cards!
Once we have agreed upon a scenario, as well as a date and time for our meeting, I will provide you with your confirmation information (a text message sent during a certain, pre-agreed upon timeframe) and all the information you need to know about the venue location–assuming that we are meeting at my playspace.
Upon your punctual arrival, we will have a few minutes to get comfortable and acquainted, especially if this is our first time meeting. While your reservation form is a great tool, I genuinely enjoy in person discussions, whether you’re kneeling at my feet as an admiring submissive or seated on my leather sofa as I stand at attention before you.
When are you available?
Rather than limit my availability to certain days, I am usually available seven days a week from 10:00 am to 10:00 pm. I require 48 hours or more advance notice in order to have adequate time to prepare for our session and greatly prefer that you book roughly one week in advance. This helps me to feel less stressed and more respected.
Are same-day sessions available? Must I book in advance?
A minimum of 48 hours advance notice is required for any reservation. A week’s advance booking is recommended to ensure a successful reservation.
What is your ideal client like?
My ideal playmate always keeps in mind that I am a precious source of sado-masochistic and emotional fulfillment and treats me with respect. They are polite, punctual, autarkic, and discreet with impeccable hygiene. They respect my limitations and communicate well. They are a joy to play with and leave me anxious to play again.
Do you offer outcall sessions?
I offer outcall to clients that I have seen before or who have at least two good references. A good reference comes from another professional dominatrix that I know and trust, or who has an impeccable reputation within the community.
Do you offer Fly-Me-To-You sessions?
I do offer FMTY sessions to experienced, generous players interested in having a magical experience.
- I require at least week’s advance booking and either we must have seen one another in person before or you must have two impeccable references.
- My minimum booking time is four hours or more–with the exception of flying to Los Angeles or Las Vegas, where my minimum booking time is only two hours.
- You will be financially responsible for my lodging and travel expenses.
- I may require an additional per diem or compensation for extensive travel times or having to pack excessive gear. An additional deposit may be required and I may request that you send gift cards for Southwest Airlines or Hotels.com via my wishlist.
Please use your common sense when booking a FMTY session regarding timelines, prices, etc.
What is your playspace like?
My east bay playspace is located in Oakland, in a discreet location just over the Bay Bridge, close to downtown. It is clean, modern, well-equipped, and private.
What are your limitations?
In short, I do not engage in any play that is unsafe, unsanitary, un-negotiated, or illegal. If you are interested in a more complete explanation of my limitations as either a dominant or as a submissive, please review my interests.
Can I mark you in session?
Yes! However, as this type of play requires extra down time to heal and may cause me to lose out on shoots and other income, you should tell me in advance to avoid being disappointed. Also note that I require an additional $100 per hour for play that will leave me marked. (No, you don’t get to pay only an additional $100 if you spend only one hour marking me. A heavy play session is a heavy play session and applying a flat rate allows me to really let go.)